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📝 Daily Check-inA win I didn’t expect
I used to say ‘just one’ and somehow it became a full committee meeting. I almost slipped, but I paused and remembered why I started. One day at a time. Today is enough.
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I used to say ‘just one’ and somehow it became a full committee meeting. I almost slipped, but I paused and remembered why I started. I went for a walk and realized my legs have been unemployed for ye...
Read moreMy Bank Account Smiled
Checked my bank balance and it didn't make me cry. First time in years. Alcohol was an expensive friend. Good riddance.
Read moreMy Plants Are Thriving
Used to spend bar money on... bars. Now spending it on my plants. My house looks like a jungle. I talk to them sober. They're better listeners than drunk friends.
Read moreI used to think I was the king of the dance floor after four Tuskers. My friends finally showed me a video of "Sober Me" vs "Drunk Me." Drunk Me looked like a startled giraffe trying to escape a net. ...
Read moreFor ten years, the only time I saw the sunrise was while stumbling out of a club in Westlands, looking for eggs. This morning, I saw it from my balcony with a cup of tea. It turns out the sun is actua...
Read moreI need advice
Woke up without a hangover and it felt like a new OS update. I’m noticing emotions I used to numb, and it’s uncomfortable but real. If you’re reading this on day 1, please know day 1 matters.
Read moreWe go again
I took a shot (very small) after a funeral today. I did go home immediately and now watching the football instead of the usual "after-burial" alcoholism. Tough but we move!
Read moreDancing Without Liquid Courage
I thought I needed alcohol to dance. Turns out I dance better sober. No more stepping on toes. My moves are sharp now. Watch out, TikTok!
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Today I walked past a bar and my brain started negotiating like a lawyer. I’m noticing emotions I used to numb, and it’s uncomfortable but real. I stared at my trigger like it owed me money, then walk...
Read moreWent to my old local spot to see friends. Ordered a Shirley Temple. The bartender kept looking at my waistline for a badge and whispering to the regulars. Apparently, "adults" don't order pink drinks ...
Read moreAt the office party, I didn’t want to explain my sobriety, so I told everyone I was a "Water Sommelier." I spent 20 minutes describing the "earthy notes" and "aggressive bubbles" of a bottle of Kering...
Read moreAt the office party, I didn’t want to explain my sobriety, so I told everyone I was a "Water Sommelier." I spent 20 minutes describing the "earthy notes" and "aggressive bubbles" of a bottle of Kering...
Read moreWedding DJ Asked If I Was Okay
At a wedding, I was dancing like crazy without drinking. DJ stopped the music: "Is everyone alright? Why is this guy dancing so hard sober?!" Legend status achieved.
Read moreMovies Make Sense Now
Watching movies sober and actually following the plot. No more "wait, who is that guy again?" halfway through.
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